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- Free Book Access Ending
- The Basics
- Meet The Author
- Imperfect Phrases 1-10
- Imperfect Phrases 11-20
- Don't Do Me Any Favors
- Don't Take It So Seriously
- Don't Take This The Wrong Way But...
- Don't You Realize...?
- "Every time We..." Remove It From Your Vocabulary
- "Everyone Agrees With Me" - Why This is Dirty Fighting
- "Get Off My Back" Finding A Better Way To Say The Same Thing
- How Can You Say You Won't...
- How Many Times Have I Told You...
- How The Hell Should I Know?
- Imperfect Phrases 21-30
- I definitely...Bad To Say?
- I Don't Care. Why you should never say it.
- I Don't Make These Kinds of Mistakes. (So I'm Perfect)?
- I Don't Want To Start An Argument But...(Oh Really?)
- " I Give Up" (Something You Should Never Say)
- Better Relationships-Never Say "I Told You So"
- I Tried That and It's A Waste of Time
- "If You Really..." One of Top Ten Relationship Killers
- I'm Doing My Best
- Stop Trying To Win, and Get A Better Relationship
- Imperfect Phrases 31-40
- I'm Not The Only One...Everyone Thinks...
- "It's All In Your Mind" - A Demeaning Phrase That Harms Relationships
- It's None of Your Business - An Aggressive Phrase That Makes Things Worse
- I Was Only Kidding: Passive-Aggressive Humor Kills Relationships
- I Will If You Will - Childish, Tit For Tat Communication
- Patronizing Relationship Killer - "I've Told You A Thousand Times"
- Just Leave It, I'll Do It Myself - Teaching The Wrong Things
- You SAY It's Not A Big Deal, But It Probably Is - "Just Forget About It, It's No Big Deal
- Lighten Up - Why This Phrase Damages Relationships
- Listen To Yourself Not A Friendly Thing To Say
- Imperfect Phrases 41-50
- "Most People Do It" Manipulative Phrase?
- Never Mind - Passive Aggressive Blow-Off
- "No Problem..." How Poor Poor Pitiful Me Can Be Passive-Aggressive
- Learn To say No Without Causing An Argument
- No I Don't, Yes You Do Arguments
- "Nobody Said Life Is Fair" - A Patronizing Statement That Upsets People
- How To Say "Not Now" Without Offending Someone
- "Nothing Is The Matter" - Often Used As A Passive-Aggressive Comment
- Do You Use This Relationship Crushing Phrase?
- Pull Yourself Together - NOT A Good Thing To Say, So What to Say Instead
- Imperfect Phrases 51-60
- "Relax" Telling Someone To Relax Almost Always Backfires
- Do You Really Want To Suggest Your Spouse Is Stupid?
- Snap Out Of It - Do You Really Want To Say This?
- "Sorry But..." One of our top ten worst phrases to use in a relationship
- A Male Speciality - Discomfort With Emotion
- "Take It Or Leave It" - Never Say This To A Family Member
- "That Doesn't Make Any Sense" - We All Say It But Should We?
- "That's Never Going To Work" - A Negative Phrase That Crushes Discussion
- "That's Just Your Opinion" - A Subtle Putdown Phrase
- "That's Not True - I Saw It For Myself" (Example of Cognitive Distortion)
- Imperfect Phrases 61-70
- Imperfect Phrases 71-80
- Imperfect Phrases 81-90
- The Final Eleven
- Last Chapter
- Search
About The Author
Robert's books have sold over 300 thousand copies worldwide, and have been translated into Chinese, French, German and Japanese.
He holds a Masters Degree in Applied Psychology, and has taught clinical and counselling psychology at the college level.
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